The courage to change

The courage to change This is a story of a woman whose name is Anna, an age thirty-five, the woman who has concluded that they can never find a husband. They determined that loneliness was her fate and thus went as far as to accept as fact. His case illustrates what I have asked the advice of individual men and women no matter what your event, every man or woman can and is capable of a happy relationship, or their potential, providing the right choices was. Anne a beautiful woman and education. In addition to their beauty, many of the problems that I never thought of. It 'been in a family where he was to think that its not always the man. E 'was the best research and the most educated members of their families. But for many years worked in the family worked the minimum wage. The sad part, was ready, in these conditions until the day he died because he had accepted that they are the black sheep of family.One of ideas that I proposed to Anne to stop thinking that would never find love was all done 'start. But he was also afraid. If the proposal was submitted, was Anna, said:? But who wants me? No man will date a woman like me. I tried my best to know that Anne is a very attractive woman. All you need to do was think that was a man out there for them. She was so worried that nobody would accept the idea that you are at the beginning that their cry. Personally, I started to feel tired. I could not understand why are so afraid to venture outside. I finally reached a point where the only choice I had in my attempt to help, Anne was an ultimatum to her. I said:? Anne, you can. I am ready to help you, but if you come to me for advice, just an excuse to take after the other, so why worry? Don? T the time available. Anne, you must try. Boys the opportunity to give at least during the day. If you are interested, tell someone about your day, your time? N name and a phone number where you are going and what time you should arrive at home. Don? T let your day get from your mother? S home? I told her. ? Him somewhere in the great outdoors. In this way, he does not know where you live, and not have to worry about him coming to her. I proceeded to tell Anne that it was prepared, unless you try, I do not have? T, for any reason, because they continue to come to me for help.At same time, I experienced a spiritual couple, visiting from the U.S. to Anne, I have dinner with me and the couple, hoping that the woman could befriend Anne. Anne told me she didn? T does not have friends. The only people who have seen me and some friends I had. Unfortunately, none of them wanted to befriend Anne, because it was so negative on everything. People simply do not want around them. After the dinner was, we all started talking. I had tried to leave home, and Anne his wife. As we talked after dinner, she began a story with Anna. Mrs. Anna said:? There was once an Eaglet, which has grown with the ducks. When the Eaglet has grown strong wings to fly, the mother tells the Eaglet duck? They hatched by ducks, but you're not a duck. You are an eagle. Eagles don? T on foot, it flies. To fly with the eagles ...? The Eaglet replied: No, I am not an eagle. I am a duck. I can not fly. The mother duck said the eagle? Yes, you are an eagle. Were dashed by a duck, but you're an eagle. You can fly. The Eaglet was so scared, that she replied: No, can not fly. I am a duck? When I try to fly, I fall. The mother tells the Eaglet duck? You are an eagle. Not? T belong. Fly and its kind and it will be very happy. Test, test. Eagles fly, which don? T feet. You are an eagle. You can fly. The Eagle thought for a minute. It began to stretch its wings and flap. And retued a little ', then jumped up and flew. Stands out as the land is clear, it could fly and began to float in the air. We have heard every Saturday and this emotional story. I know that I cried, and so is Anna. I cared so much about Anne. I wanted to find their fortune. Not long after, with a little 'encouragement and support, Anne from their parents? Keller. He found his own apartment and a full-time job in a hotel. He began to date and met a man who, for their care. Although it has been difficult and frightening at first, Anne, and when he tried, he rose. These real-life example shows that we all find happiness and success, if we chose, for the decisions and do things that make us good luck and success. Anne only succeed if they have left their comfort zone and felt. In your love for life, the only way to truly fail is when you don? T try, whether up or groped to hide behind excuses and justifications. The Eaglet finally flown with eagles instead of walking with the ducks. This means, for example in the report, you can love with your ideal mate? Not a man or a woman for the sake of a lover. You can live your potential. But for the clearance of unhealthy relationships and mediocre is not the way to find happiness. You can reach your true potential in all things, if your part. You can call from Anne? S history, despite their education and experience of happiness could be found to make decisions that have brought her happiness. When Anne left her comfort zone (like the eagles by the ducks), have reached their potential. Did you make your selection, is the stress and frustration? If you are interested in reports that her misery? What is your emotional well-being worth? Choose the kind of life and relationships you want. So you know what to do. About the Author Eest Quansah is a soul friend relationship expert who helps men and women find their true love and the relationship of their dreams. 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